8-10 hours/day

I went to the eye doctor last week (for the first time in years) to talk about getting contacts because my vision is so bad. As we were going over my history and concerns, she asked me what I do for a living and how many hours a day I spend on the computer.

I told her 8-10 hours, average.

She laughed at first.

And then when she realized I was serious, she expressed concern about how bad that was for my eyes.

I told her that between my full time job and my business, it’s the truth. And yet, these last few weeks I’ve found that even that much time isn’t enough.

You may have noticed it’s been about a month since I posted a blog post. I also haven’t been regularly updating my social media, or posting industry articles. I’ll be the first to admit I’ve been slacking. My full time job has been so busy lately and it’s been exhausting. I’ve been working longer hours, and had no time during the day for a break (so many meetings!). On top of that, I’ve been very busy with my existing clients, and working on onboarding two more.

Therefore, I’m spending 8-10 hours a day, 5-6 days a week staring at my computer.

But, I’m still falling behind writing and publishing for my own business. Which without that new content, I’m not continuing to grow and establish. And while I know the importance of prioritizing my own business, I’m not. And sadly, it’s an active choice I’m making.

Because after 8 hours of meetings and 2-3 hours of writing for clients, I’m tired. And I want to watch an episode of my favorite show, or read some of my book, and then go to sleep. I know I should be writing a blog post, or scheduling out social media posts. And I can’t say I don’t have the time (because that would be a lie), but spending that time working means I’m sacrificing time doing other things I enjoy, or time with family or friends.

I’ve been doing this freelancing gig for about three years now and I’ve written before about finding the balance. Now more than ever it’s challenging to find that balance as I’m busier than ever with work and clients.

Don’t get me wrong – it’s the best feeling to have. I love what I’m doing with my clients and the work I’m publishing. I’m so proud of my success so far and how far I’ve come.

But to keep going, I need to continue to prioritize my business. I just honestly don’t know how.

So here’s a question to my fellow freelancers – how did you do it? How did you build a successful business, while also having and enjoying your life? Not missing those moments in life is so important to me, but I feel like too often I read about successful people having sacrificed everything to get to where they are, including family, friends, sleep and their own health.

I don’t want to be like that. I want to change the narrative. I want to prove to every kid out there dreaming of this life, having their own business and being successful writers, that you can have it all.

I’ll be sure to let you all know if I figure it out.

Until then, I’ll keep spending my 8-10 hours.

the importance of patience

I started back at work this week (FINALLY), and though working from home, I’ve now had to switch my focus to checking emails, joining meetings, and catching up on projects and things I missed during furlough.

Even though I’m back working full time, I’ve also been busier than ever with business clients. In the past three months, I’ve brought on four new clients, in addition to the three consistent clients I already had. I have a new organization system that’s really working for me and I could not be more excited to be continuing to grow my business, but it’s keeping me busy on top of my 7 a.m. – 4 p.m. regular job.

We also brought home a new puppy this past Sunday.

He’s a six-ish month old boxer/shepherd mix who has basically lived in a shelter or bounced from foster to foster all of his life. He’s the sweetest, most loving and friendly little guy, but he’s had essentially zero training. He’s not fully house trained, his manners need work, and he’s still a puppy with a lot of puppy energy.

Let me just say – I’ve really had my patience tested this week.

I’m learning a “new normal” being back to work (though working from home) and balancing my client load. Sometimes it’s tough to log into the meeting when last week I would have been sipping a glass of wine and reading my book on the patio.

And I’m also trying to train a puppy.

I knew what we were getting into with a puppy, but let’s just say I’ve never been the most patient person in the world. I’ve said “off,” “quiet,” and “potty” more times this week than I have probably in my whole life combined. I had to buy a baby gate to block off rooms in the house because he must be watched constantly. And our other dog is still getting used to him, so she needs to get extra attention!

I’ve found myself getting so frustrated. Either I’m on a conference call and the puppy is going crazy jumping on things and barking, or I’m trying to write a content piece and have to take him out 6 times before he goes potty. Or I really want to work on a client piece, but instead am focusing on a work project.

BUT THIS IS LIFE.

There’s always something to distract you. Something to drag you down or discourage you. Something that must take priority, even if you don’t want it to. When you’re building a business, especially if you’re also working full time, things won’t always go your way.

And that’s why patience is so important.

You won’t be a huge success overnight. Your client list won’t boom in one week or even one month. You won’t have as much savings as you’d like to quit your job. Your website traffic may take months to be where you want it. But part of building a business and being a freelancer is remembering these things even when it’s hard and life seems to get in the way or even knock you down. Trust me, it took me a long time to understand and embrace this.

It’s so important to have patience because that’s what will keep you going, knowing that one day you will be a huge success, and your client list will be nearly more than you can handle, and you’ll have enough savings to be able to quit your job and do what you love full-time instead.

I’m more motivated than ever to continue to provide excellence to my clients and grow my business, portfolio and profits. And, I have more work than ever to prove it. I’ve had to be patient with myself while I figure out how to juggle my time and work and normal life after three months of having endless time to do whatever I wanted. I’ve had to be patient with the puppy, because after all, he’s just a puppy. (One day, he will be an amazing dog and these puppy months will be a distant memory.)

I’ve found that the more patient you are with yourself in life, the more you will be able to get out of life. And yes, this is much easier for me to say than do. But if you give yourself time to become who you want to be, and build what you’ve always dreamed, getting there is so much sweeter. And, you get to enjoy the path along the way.

They say to live for the journey, not just the destination. It’s easier to do so once you understand the importance of patience ✌️

tips for staying organized

I live in a small house. I have a desk set up in our spare bedroom, but it’s used more for stacking and storing things than an actual working desk space. I also work a full-time job on top of freelancing. Within my business, I’m juggling anywhere from 2-6 clients, providing different deliverables (some I provide content, others I run their social media).

How do I stay on top of everything? How do I stay organized? How do I ensure no assignment, meeting, or email slips through the cracks?

While I’m definitely not perfect, I definitely pride myself on my organization. I’ve always been a paper planner user, list maker, and time scheduler. Though obsessive in my high school and college days, my organizational skills and attention to detail have definitely played into my professional success.

Now is more important than ever to stay organized while working from home since thousands of people are home, trying to balance work and life while in the same space.

Here are a few tips I’ve learned over the years that help me stay organized with my clients and workload.

  • Use a planner. I religiously, and probably somewhat obsessive compulsively, use my planner. Like an actual paper, bound planner. I enjoy the physical act of writing my assignments, meetings and appointments. I carry it with me in my laptop bag or purse, and every morning look to see what’s happening for me that day. Then, throughout the day, I check or cross items off as they get done. I also use stickers and highlighters for the important due dates and things I can’t miss.

    Whether you use a paper planner, the calendar on your phone other electronic device, or a planner app, do whatever works for you. Try and be sure to log everything, including assignments, deadlines, meetings, and other time-bound information so nothing gets lost in the shuffle of life.

  • Time block your day. Creating a routine is important if you’re working from home. I like to get up, shower, make a cup of coffee and check my emails and messages. Then I review my planner and lay out what I have to do for the day. I try to estimate how long each task will take, or dedicate the appropriate amount of time.

    Be sure to schedule breaks and lunch. By creating time blocks and focusing on one assignment at a time for a specific period of time, you’re more likely to be able to stay focused and get work done.

  • Color code. I color code with my planner. You may color code per client, by day, by task, etc. Do what works for you. I have different colors for different parts of my life – my full time job, my business, my personal life, etc. Each is a different color, so when I look at my planner each morning, I can see what needs to be done (or is scheduled) for each part of my life. It helps me easily determine if I need to move or bump things, reschedule, etc.
  • Make to-do lists. I love to-do lists. There is nothing more satisfying than being able to cross something off a list once you complete it. I’ve even been known to add something to a to-do list just so I can cross it off. Seriously, though, write a list each morning of everything you HAVE to get done that day. Then, create a separate list of things you COULD get done that day if you have time. Start at the top, and work your way down. Or, start with the easiest/quickest task and work up to the longer or more difficult ones.

    However you decide to complete the tasks, check it off when you’re done, and at the end of each day, look at all you’ve accomplished. I find that creating lists, especially when you first sit down to work, can help you focus your day and what you have to accomplish.

  • Use a content calendar. When I’m working on items for my own business, I stick to my content calendar. Each month, I write out what I will blog and post on social media about each day. Then, every morning, I review what is being posted that day, or decide what I need to write next for publishing.

    By determining at the beginning of the month what will post, I’m able to keep myself more organized, avoid repeating topics or posts too close together, and help stay on track with blog creation. Content calendars are great tools for planning your blogs, social posts, email sends and other content production.

  • Don’t be a hoarder. This one is hard for me. I keep EVERYTHING. You should see what I have to go through when I move. However, it’s important to not be a hoarder when it comes to your business or freelancing, because that’s how things get lost and overlooked.

    Obviously keep the important things, like invoices, receipts, paperwork, contracts, etc. Organize it all by client in file folders or on your computer. But when it comes to other things, like edited drafts of blog posts, to-do lists from six months ago, notes on clients or other scraps, get rid of it! Do a daily, weekly, or at least monthly purge of your paperwork and desk to ensure you’re keeping and organizing what you need, and getting rid of all of the other clutter.

  • Turn off technology, including web browsers open simply for surfing. Obviously the laptop or phone you’re using for work doesn’t count, but avoid checking your phone messages, checking social media, scrolling through your personal email, playing Candy Crush, watching Netflix, and anything else that could be a distraction. If that means putting your phone on silent, or keeping it in another room, do it!

  • Avoid multi-tasking. It’s scientifically proven that there’s no such thing as multi-tasking. I still have a hard time believing it, because I feel like I’m good at it, but that’s what they say. While you’re working through your daily to-dos, don’t jump around from one to the next, because by the end of the day you’ll have done a little bit of a lot of things, and probably not ‘completed’ anything.

    Also, trying to do other things like watch videos, talk on the phone, and even listen to music (especially if it has words) can be so distracting. If you’re set out to work, do the task at hand and avoid anything else that can be a distraction. This will make it more likely you’ll get done what you need to be done.

  • Separate clients and assignments. In the past, I’ve had up to six clients at once. That’s six clients to work with, who are sending me emails and assignments, with different deadlines, and different means of communication (email, Upwork messages, text, etc.) Let me be the first to say it’s easy for clients or assignments to slip through the cracks, or deadlines to pass without submitting work.

    I’ve found it helpful to have a different folder for each client where I save all of the work, a separate email folder that automatically funnels emails in from that client, and client assignment lists with due dates. When I’m creating my to-do list, I go through and check who has assignments due first, who needs worked on, and what needs to get done before anything else. It’s helpful to do what you can to keep all clients and assignments separate so you don’t get confused and forgetful.

  • Don’t procrastinate. I’m the first to admit I’m the queen of procrastination. In high school and college, you’d find me writing papers, studying and completing assignments the night before, or even the day of, the due date. I used to say I “worked better under pressure.” While this is true, and I think a skill I’ve perfected because of my journalism and news background, it’s not necessary or conducive to a positive work from home environment.

    Procrastination causes stress, and things can more easily slip through the cracks. Especially as a freelancer, you can’t miss deadlines. Avoid waiting until the last minute so you don’t have to worry about getting things done, or worse, forgetting assignments. 

 

What are your favorite tips for staying organized and productive while working from home? Comment below!

reflecting on 2019

2019 was my first year as a business owner, and I’ve spent the first week of 2020 reflecting on last year and making plans for accomplishing my 2020 goals.

Owning this business has been a fascinating journey so far with so much more to come. Here are a few things I learned in my first year as a freelancer and consultant, and a few tips for others trying to do the same!

  • I filed with the state of Kentucky on January 2 to become an LLC. I worked with Incfile.com which helps verify your name, prepare and file articles for your state, give you a registered agent, provide free tax consult, and more. Honestly, other than the filing process, I didn’t use them too much. However, I absolutely recommend others to use it for the filing process – it’s definitely worth it.
  • I spent time developing a contract and invoice template, business brochure, building my website, and hiring a designer to create a logo. If you’re just getting started thinking about being a freelancer or owning a business, there are dozens of things you should do to prepare.

TIP: Don’t be overwhelmed! Do research. Read books and blogs and follow other business owners who are doing or have done the same thing you are working toward. As you read, write down a list of everything they suggest or recommend you develop or have (contracts, invoice, business cards, website, etc.) Work through your list and prioritize those that need done first, and do one thing at a time!

  • I got my first client in January! She’s a small business owner (personal trainer) who has relied on me for the past year to run her social media strategy. We’ve found great success, including significant engagement on her page and even leads and sales for her business.

TIP: DON’T RUSH. Don’t hurry to get your first client until you are completely ready. That client is taking a risk taking you on as a new business – don’t burn them! It’s tempting to run out and start pitching, but you need to remain credible through the process. Make sure you have your stuff together (or at least enough stuff) that you feel confident in being able to produce quality work, on time.

  • I spent January finding balance. Balancing my Upwork clients and business clients, my full-time job and my business, work and personal life, and developing business materials that I would need to be effective.

Embrace the fear. Let go of perfection. Allow yourself to fail. Welcome the obstacles. Give yourself over to your passion with every fiber of who you are. And wake up every day and recognize you chose to build something amazing.

  • My dad passed away the first week of February. This threw a wrench in the ability to focus and work. But I learned a valuable lesson – life happens, and no matter how much you plan or try to be prepared, something is bound to get in the way and mess it up. 

TIP: If something throws you off track, make a “Regroup and Reassess” list. Write 10 things you need to do personally or professionally in the next 7-10 days to get you back on track, and work through that list. 

  • Part of being a working professional is staying current in industry trends and continuing education. While you could take a college course, you can also find certification courses online (free or with cost) to help you learn and grow. Three certifications I worked on last year were ANA’s Content Marketing Certificate Program, Google Analytics Certification, and Hubspot’s Inbound Marketing Certification.
  • February was when I started understanding freelancer’s guilt. Being a freelancer, especially in addition to working a full-time job, takes sacrifices that sometimes I don’t want to make. But to build my portfolio and make a paycheck. those sacrifices are necessary. Apparently, though, feeling guilty is normal and common!

TIP: Read guiding the guilt for some tips on how to ditch the guilt and make the most of your freelance career. 

  • March was when I started budgeting and figuring out how much money I need to make and save to be able to freelance full time. It can be daunting to consider cost of your reoccurring monthly bills, health insurance, emergency fund, savings and other estimated costs you’d run into working on your own. It can be intimidating, and you may feel like you’ll never make it. But, once you break it down into numbers, calculate your hourly rate or number of clients you need, it doesn’t seem as daunting!

TIP: Make sure you understand all of the expenses you’ll run into as a business owner or full-time freelancer. Don’t forget about self-employed taxes, business taxes, health insurance, business costs (like supplies, business cards, website and domain costs, etc.). Do research or talk to an accountant to help you keep everything straight. 

TIP: In whatever way works for you (whether it’s an app, website, or Excel spreadsheet), make sure you track all of your incoming and outgoing dollars. Also save all receipts that are related to your business. 

  • I realized towards the end of 2019 that I wasn’t ready to jump on the full-time freelancing train. I’m a saver, and I was nervous about the budget I felt like I didn’t have. I spent time mapping out what I needed to do to make it happen within the next one, three and five years. I considered my bare minimum monthly budget, researched additional ways I can generate a passive income stream, and thought about what my backup plan would be if I did take the leap and it didn’t work out.

TIP: Just because I wasn’t ready doesn’t mean you aren’t! If you’ve done the research, calculations, budgeting, and thought fully through what your plans are and could be, don’t be afraid! But always be sure you have a backup plan, whether it’s falling back on additional savings, getting help from family, or going back to work full time. 

  • In 2019, I also signed my first paying business client. I had to generate my first statement of work and invoice to an outside client not through Upwork. Honestly, it was scary! I was so afraid I was doing something wrong, or not doing something I should be doing, or invoicing or contracting wrong. But I did it, and it gave me confidence to continue to do it!

TIP: Consult an attorney and accountant before you sign on your first client. Work with a business attorney to make sure you statement of work/contract is sufficient, and your invoice structure protects you. Talk with an accountant to make sure all of your income is taxed appropriately, and you pay taxes the way you should!

2019 was a crazy year. It was a year of growth, excitement, heartbreak, learning, frustration and joy. I can’t wait to see what 2020 brings me and Callahan Communication! Thank you for reading, and for continuing to support my business!

vision boards

Since I was a child, I’ve been encouraged to set goals and do what I need to do – whatever it took – to accomplish them.

Whether it was getting an “A” in a class, landing my first (or second, or third) job, being accepted to college, earning my master’s degree, studying abroad, moving to a new city, starting my business… it started with having a goal. Once I had the goal, I had to envision accomplishing it. Sometimes, that included making a plan for getting there. Other times it was simply doing what it took – staying at practice longer than everyone else, constantly reading and writing to improve my craft, setting up my Upwork profile to begin my freelancing career.

Recently I’ve been taking a long, hard look at my life and what my next goals are. I’ve accomplished a lot in my 27 years so far, and this year has been a whirlwind both physically and emotionally. As I check things off my bucket list, such as formalizing my consulting business, I’ve realized it’s time to set my next one, five and even 10 year goals, in addition to focusing on the next 3-6 months.

Most of the time, I make a list of my goals. This week, I tried something different.

Have you ever heard of vision boarding? It’s when you cut or print photos of what you want in your life, or how you want your life to be, and pin it on a board where you can look at it every day. I had a vision board once – house, car, engagement ring, family, beach condo, a book with my byline. I still have many of those goals. They say visualizing your goals is a great way to accomplish them. But after reading the book You Are a Writer (so start ACTING like one) by Jeff Goins, I had another plan.

His words encouraged me to start writing again for the sake of writing, because I love it, with no rules or purpose. As I sat at my desk and thought about it, I was encouraged with an idea – to develop a vision board, but with words.

A vision immediately flooded my mind. Waking up (no alarm) next to my boyfriend, our dog at my feet. Tip-toeing out of bed, puttering across our kitchen and living room, to the back patio sliding door. Opening it. A gush of salty sea air hitting my face. Journaling and meditation on the porch with a cup of coffee, sun in my face. Gathering my things and walking down to the beach. Setting up my spot, and opening my laptop to check emails and log time for my clients. The vision is my family five years from now, living in our little beach house in the Carolinas, freelancing full time and living the life I’ve always dreamed.

As I wrote, 3,000 words poured from my fingertips. I felt myself being embodied by my vision. I embraced my thoughts and the feeling of pure joy and excitement to be living the life I’ve imagined. It made me excited and to be honest, I got a slight thrill. Butterflies in the pit of my stomach. It was exhilarating to envision my life the way I want it to be, and write about it as it is truth. I imagined a future journal entry celebrating how far I’ve come accomplishing my goals and it felt amazing.

I’ve decided I’m going to make this at least weekly personal development time. Taking time to focus on building and envisioning my goals will help me prepare for them better and accomplish them faster.

REFLECTION: How do you keep track of your goals? What do you to do work toward accomplishing them? What goals are you working toward now? Leave your story in the comments!