When you have a small business, your customers or clients are your lifeblood. They are how you keep your business alive, and ideally, the more you have, the more you thrive.
When you run a freelance or consulting business, developing great relationships with your clients is critical. It’s something that’s personally incredibly important. I do everything I can to have and maintain positive working relationships with my clients:
- I give them several ways to get a hold of me, including messenger, email and my cell phone number for calling or texting.
- I never miss a deadline. In fact, I try to go above and beyond deadlines and get the pieces in earlier than asked for.
- I spend the time it takes on my assignments, making sure they are exceptionally written, edited and formatted to their expectations.
- I always ask for and embrace feedback, and offer one round of edits on all of my work to make sure it’s exactly what they need.
- If I haven’t heard from a client in a few days, I reach out. Make sure they saw my assignment submission, check in, ask about any other assignments they may need, etc.
But sometimes, even through all of that, a client just isn’t a good fit. They might even just be a prospective client who after having conversations with, you aren’t sure they are the best for you or you for them.
Spoiler alert – that’s ok.
It’s taken me my whole life to come to this conclusion, and three years of freelancing to really embrace it. In my opinion, what it comes down to is your value for yourself, your time, and your business.
Recently I’ve ended a few contracts with clients because they were unresponsive, had unrealistic expectations or requests, communicated poorly, or no longer pay what I believe my work is worth. I also turned down work from a new client because I didn’t feel like having the “client count” or money from the assignments would be worth what I knew would be a tough, struggling and even frustrating relationship.
Doing these things, and saying no when I wasn’t comfortable, was incredibly freeing. I’ve learned to value myself and my work more than accepting poorly paying jobs just so I have something. I run my own business and I am a professional, and I want to work with clients who treat me and my work with the respect I believe I deserve.
I’m going to assume that if you’re a freelancer, consultant, or other small business owner, you’ve encountered something like this in your career. It’s not fun. But, having to deal with customers or clients who are not a good fit is how we learn who is a good fit and grow in our professions. We are able to recognize the value of ourselves and our work, appreciate clients and our work on another level, and have a greater respect for ourselves and the business we’ve worked so hard to build.
It’s hard to turn down work that could add to your portfolio. Or payment for an assignment that you really could do. Something is better than nothing, right? Perhaps, and if you’re in the situation where that’s the reality, then you may have to take that job or work for that client until you can get back on your feet. (I’ve been there, too.) But the more you stand up for yourself and your business, and continue to work and build relationships with clients who matter, the more value you will get out of what you do – both professionally, and personally.


